June 19, 2009

Pushing Passenger on Dancer's Boss (RBI)

OK. I've said before that I had not realized what I had in Boss. He's a GEM. I have been scratching his belly a lot lately and he is hilarious. LEANS toward me...and if I scratch somehwere else he puts his belly right next to me. I move to the bum or tail, he moves so that his belly is right there. (I admit to scratching other things just so he'll show me his itchy spot. After all these years he has FINALLY done it and I'm so pleased).

Got on him the other day with a cushy saddle blanket under my bareback pad (he's an old guy and sort of bony although I'm working to get him more of a fat layer) and we did it after lots of scatches and treats. He was fine with it. I did pushing passenger and tit for tat. Then I did let's go here for a great grazing spot, let's go sideways to that grazing spot. Let's back up--and graze. He is a smart cookie and got it right away. We did this for about an hour and I had a fantastic time. Rode in the herd and had to swing a savvy string to keep O'Rion and Exy away..they were really happy to see me and wanted to come over to mess with me (ORion is too mouthy and I might get a nip)--not to mention I was leading/defending my herd of two. Boss really licked and chewed when I drove them away. :)


I feel ashamed that I wasted all these years with such a great potential partner and I thought he was a jerk. He USED to be very dominant and scary at times. Now that I can speak horse (thanks Pat and Linda! Get the Horsenality DVD right now if you don't have it!)he's so much better and we are forging a new relationship. He actually looks happy when he sees me and nickers really low in his chest. Makes me smile SO BIG! I nicker back.

Any problem of his--it was MY PROBLEM and I'm sad. But I thought, what the hay, I'm going to enjoy him if he's ok with riding. he seems to be! Especially when I take my magic bag on my waist with the treats! And we have really lush grazing right now (unlike the blasted heat of hell that we'll have later on in the summer) so I'm going to take him into the woods for a trail ride soon.

My friends from Scotland are coming this week! Julie, Chloe, Iain, Rosie, and Stuart. When I visted my friend Shelley I was able to bring Julie and it was the first time she had been around horses in years. Her Mum used to be a jockey, too. so you can perhaps know what that meant to her. Thanks, Shells! I can't wait to hear the lovely accents once more! I'll try not to greet too hard when they leave!

Anyway, back to my adventures.

Went to have a tire fixed off the horse trailer and the guy had TWO HUGE tractor tires and he gave them to me for FREE! We had three men load them in the truck. Albie unloaded by himself (what a stud) and we have yet to place them in the playground. I'm very chuffed about having more tires!

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wow Shelly,

Great to see you're having SO much fun now, your smile certainly comes across in your blog. Didn't P&L say it was a journey about changing ourselves!!! it's such a huge revelation isn't it. I did a lot of soul searching when I bought Solly and now I'm having so much fun with him too. I'm so happy that you're having fun with your lovely herd.

Say HI to Julie and family, I remember your visit with fondness and always remember you when I take a horse out with the rhythmn beads. Enjoy their visit and I hope Julie enjoys her time with you in such a beautiful state of America.

Love Shelley xxxx

Summer Solstice said...

Well Shelly,

It sure sounds like you're SMILING a lot at the moment and that's so COOL ;-) Have fun with your lovely herd, keep progressing and keep having lots of 'oh boy', 'how interesting' and BFO moments.

Say HI to Julie for me, I have very fond memories of you two coming over for a hug with my herd.

Speak soon

Shelley

Summer Solstice said...

Well Shelly,

It sure sounds like you're SMILING a lot at the moment and that's so COOL ;-) Have fun with your lovely herd, keep progressing and keep having lots of 'oh boy', 'how interesting' and BFO moments.

Say HI to Julie for me, I have very fond memories of you two coming over for a hug with my herd.

Speak soon

Shelley